Meet Professional Matchmaker Brianne Tillyer

Name: Brianne Tillyer
Practice name: You & I Introductions www.youandi.com.au  (Our legacy brand) and Intentional Dating www.intentionaldating.com.au

Location: Brisbane, Australia (servicing clients across Australia & New Zealand in 2026). We use a hybrid approach of in-person and online meetings.

 Price: “We offer a range of professional entry points to suit every stage of the dating journey, ensuring that cost is never a barrier to expert support. From a $97 Discovery and Strategy session for those seeking immediate expert clarity to our bespoke, high-touch matchmaking and intensive coaching packages, there is a pathway for everyone. Fees are tailored to the specific level of consulting and goals required within our $495.00 to $7500 range.” 

What is your best matchmaking story?: “The most rewarding experience isn’t just a single date; it’s seeing two people build a life who never would have crossed paths otherwise. Over my 32 years, I’ve introduced couples across every generation.  From young professionals starting out to those finding love again in their 70’s.  One that stays ‘etched in my heart’ is a couple celebrating 25 years together this year. It’s a story of being true to oneself, in this case, regardless of outside opinion. With time and patience, I recognised ‘the one’ the moment she walked in. Watching their confidence flourish into a genuine, lasting family unit is life-changing.  It’s a testament to what happens when you remain respectful to yourself and the process.

What does your typical client look like? “Our clients are ‘Lifestyle Aligned’ individuals who value personal growth and intentional connection.  What’s fascinating is seeing generational shifts and how dating has evolved:

We see Gen Z and Millennial professionals who are ‘app-fatigued’ and seeking a higher level of vetting and traditional values that swiping simply can’t provide. Simultaneously, today’s 50-somethings are Gen X, bringing a new level of self-awareness to the table, while Baby Boomers have moved more confidently into the app space, proving our statistics that the desire for a deep ‘next chapter’ connection has no age limit.

Whether they are busy professionals or those re-entering the dating world after a long hiatus, my typical client is ready to invest in their future.  They aren’t just looking for ‘available’; they are looking for ‘aligned’.”

Why are they coming to you?

“Most come to us because they are exhausted by the ‘disposable’ nature of dating apps, but it’s important to note: we aren’t ‘anti-app’, we are ‘pro-success’. Many of our clients are still active online, but they come to intentional dating pathways because they want a human-led, pre-vetted alternative that offers safety and accountability.  We provide a bridge between the digital world and real-life chemistry.  They are looking for a licensed expert who understands human behaviour and can turn the ‘luck’ of a swipe into a structured, evidence-based journey toward a partner who is truly Lifestyle Aligned”.

What is your biggest tip for someone struggling to date? –

“My biggest tip is to date with Intentionality over Intensity. Many struggle because they approach dating with the pressure of finding ‘The One’ on the first coffee date, which creates immediate burnout. Instead, I tell my clients that their most important relationship is with their own dating mindset. Shift your focus from ‘Do they like me?’ to ‘Do our lifestyles and values actually align?” 

Today’s professional matchmaking has evolved far beyond just a ‘database’.  It’s about providing a strategy to assist with non-negotiables and the language around them.

When you communicate with self-awareness rather than apology, you stop ‘collecting’ dates and start selecting partners.

By removing the ticking clock and replacing it with a clear, reflective strategy, the process stops being a chore and becomes a life-changing investment in your future.”